band members are plotting to remove one of us... suggestions sought

[Beedster]

50 minutes ago, Crusoe said:

I could have sworn that I watched this series on Netflix.

 

Traitors was on ITV 👍

 

All joking aside, if it was me I'd pick up the phone and tell B exactly what's going on, I'd then pick up the phone and tell A what I've just done. I;d then resign from the band, go to the pub and have a pint. The only way to change the membership of anything but a fully pro band is to resign from it (or allow someone else to do the same, which can be done sensitively if things have got to that point which they sometimes do). Sacking someone from an amateur band is bollocks, especially if done in an underhand way

[Al Krow]

11 minutes ago, Beedster said:

Sacking someone from an amateur band is bollocks, especially if done in an underhand way

 

Tbf bands, including amateur ones, sack band members all the time, right? Sometimes a band member just doesn't click, isn't cutting it or prepared to put in as much as other band mates to grow the project etc. There's a myriad of reasons.

 

But the point about treating people how you would want to be treated is absolutely the right one: pretty sure that A would hate the rest of the band treating him the way he's treating B?