Barking Spiders Posted January 24, 2017 Share Posted January 24, 2017 I've just bought tickets for two for Friday at Download as my missus loves System of A Down and Five Finger Death Punch. While she' s enjoying them I might be sticking kebab skewers in my eardrums. I owe it to her as when we went to Sonisphere a couple of years ago cos she wanted to see Metallica, I lost the will to live by sunday morning and grovelled to her, pleading for us to leave. So, how far have you put yourself out for someone else?. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Winny Pooh Posted January 24, 2017 Share Posted January 24, 2017 I did watch Savage Garden for the sake of a friend. More meh than painful. I'd flat out decline a metal gig though. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phil.c60 Posted January 24, 2017 Share Posted January 24, 2017 As above, only it was Van der Graaf generator a few years ago at the Barbican. I even fell asleep at one point during some endless noodling but I think I got away with it. Fortunately Mrs.C and I share most things musical, but she sometimes goes to the Ballet or the Opera, both of which I politely decline. She goes with a friend. She does get quite misty eyed over Van Morrison but I 'm not that keen, and she gets a bit sarky about Seve Hilllage ("That hippy sh*t") but I quite like to listen to him now and then. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dropzone Posted January 24, 2017 Share Posted January 24, 2017 I have to go to horsey things like show jumping. I don't hate it but I would rather be covered in chocolate and thrown to the lesbians if I had a choice ;-) I will be at download suffering so you guys don't have to. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chris_b Posted January 24, 2017 Share Posted January 24, 2017 She got married to me. Anything I can do is small change compared to that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
synthaside Posted January 24, 2017 Share Posted January 24, 2017 I went to Arc Tangent which is a mathrock noiserock / doomcore festival ... With my other half , I like my metal but this is toooooo extreme for my tastes ... Turns out some of the earlier acts were very good ... Go for the musicianship and the beer . Just remind your SO next time they are moaning about spending too much time standing around at *insert bass shop of choice*. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bubinga5 Posted January 24, 2017 Share Posted January 24, 2017 (edited) It really wouldn't bother me what music my wife dragged me too. As long as it's played well. I draw the line at Westlife and Hard House though. Would she come to an Incognito or Funk gig.? Nope. Edited January 24, 2017 by bubinga5 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
barneyg42 Posted January 24, 2017 Share Posted January 24, 2017 I went to a recording session of Surprise Surprise with my girlie because Olly Murs was on. Holly Willowbooby was up the duff so some stuff that was recorded for another program was from the waist up only as she would have dropped by the screening. A very uncomfortable afternoon in tiny seats, but as my better half goes to most of my gigs I couldn't refuse really!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
timmo Posted January 24, 2017 Share Posted January 24, 2017 [quote name='bubinga5' timestamp='1485268578' post='3222636'] . I draw the line at Westlife and Hard House though. [/quote] My wife wanted to go to a Westlife gig at the NEC. I bought 2 tickets and told her too take her mate. There was no chance I would go to that. I went to Lionel Richie though. I didn`t think I would enjoy it, but he was immense. Great bit of banter, and you could tell he is a seasoned professional Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dmccombe7 Posted January 24, 2017 Share Posted January 24, 2017 I'm lucky that my wife likes same music as me so not an issue. Dave Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dmccombe7 Posted January 24, 2017 Share Posted January 24, 2017 [quote name='Dropzone' timestamp='1485265244' post='3222591'] I have to go to horsey things like show jumping. I don't hate it but I would rather be covered in chocolate and thrown to the lesbians if I had a choice ;-) I will be at download suffering so you guys don't have to. [/quote] I don't think the option is a punishment. Sounds like a great plan to me. Dave Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bubinga5 Posted January 24, 2017 Share Posted January 24, 2017 [quote name='timmo' timestamp='1485271793' post='3222659'] My wife wanted to go to a Westlife gig at the NEC. I bought 2 tickets and told her too take her mate. There was no chance I would go to that. I went to Lionel Richie though. I didn`t think I would enjoy it, but he was immense. Great bit of banter, and you could tell he is a seasoned professional [/quote] I would happily go to see Lionel Ritchie. Amazing talent and he was part of the amazing Commodore,s. Enough said.😊 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EliasMooseblaster Posted January 24, 2017 Share Posted January 24, 2017 A very good friend of mine accompanied her husband to a Dragonforce gig many years ago. She was (still is, I presume) more a jazz fan than prog-metal, or whatever you call their style. She remarked upon the "interesting" attire of many of the audience, but was quietly diplomatic about the music, as I recall... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deepbass5 Posted January 24, 2017 Share Posted January 24, 2017 took her to see Donny and Marie at Bournemouth, there were loads of old people there with grey hair, I went to the loo looked in the mirror thought mmmm snap Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dan Dare Posted January 24, 2017 Share Posted January 24, 2017 [quote name='timmo' timestamp='1485271793' post='3222659'] My wife wanted to go to a Westlife gig at the NEC. I bought 2 tickets and told her too take her mate. There was no chance I would go to that. I went to Lionel Richie though. I didn`t think I would enjoy it, but he was immense. Great bit of banter, and you could tell he is a seasoned professional [/quote] +1. The perfect solution. She and a pal have a treat on you, you earn brownie points and you don't have to stuff cotton wool in your ears/wish you were dead. Genius. Oh and don't expect her to come to your gigs unless she wants to. That's only fair. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Conan Posted January 24, 2017 Share Posted January 24, 2017 I spend time with her parents... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ghost_Bass Posted January 24, 2017 Share Posted January 24, 2017 [quote name='chris_b' timestamp='1485265595' post='3222596'] She got married to me. Anything I can do is small change compared to that. [/quote] ^^^^This! Marriage is made of compromises, it's the ticket to happiness If it's well played and the FOH has mixed well i can get myself to enjoy practicly anything even if it's just the bass lines or a good drummer and i filter out the rest of the noise. Having said that i would love to see SOAD, great band with excelent songs. Not that stereotype of metal noise with amps past 11, it's very musical and melodic. I would advise the OP to put up with it and try to apreciate a good band IMO. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RhysP Posted January 24, 2017 Share Posted January 24, 2017 Luckily my partner has no interest in music whatsoever so it's never been a problem. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BigRedX Posted January 24, 2017 Share Posted January 24, 2017 While there are plenty of bands that both me and my other half would love to go and see together there are also lots that only one of us have any time for. In those situations we're quite happy to go and do our own thing separately. She'll probably go with some of her friends, and I'll go on my own as I've learnt through experience that unless I go with people who are likely to enjoy the gig as much as I hope to, the evening will invariably end in disappointment for somebody. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bassace Posted January 24, 2017 Share Posted January 24, 2017 I arranged to take Mrs B out to dinner a few weeks ago. Two days before an offer of a dep came through at a major jazz festival with a very good band. I took the Mrs out. I'm no fool. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Graham Posted January 24, 2017 Share Posted January 24, 2017 [quote name='synthaside' timestamp='1485266183' post='3222605'] I went to Arc Tangent which is a mathrock noiserock / doomcore festival ... With my other half , I like my metal but this is toooooo extreme for my tastes ... Turns out some of the earlier acts were very good ... Go for the musicianship and the beer . Just remind your SO next time they are moaning about spending too much time standing around at *insert bass shop of choice*. [/quote] I'd love to go to Arc Tangent, looks like a brilliant little festival. the wife rarely comes to gigs with me, she'd be welcome to come but unless we get a babysitter someone has to stay home and most things I go to (in fairness not much these days) aren't to her taste. We have been to see The Lounge Kittens together recently, which was brilliant. To the OP, sitting through Five Finger Death Punch? That's love right there Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bonzodog Posted January 24, 2017 Share Posted January 24, 2017 When i was a teenager i went through a glam rock phase while my older brother was a goth. He had a spare ticket to see the mission and insisted i went along. In protest i wore my bright yellow shirt and stood in the middle of the NEC with 15000 people in black. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Roger2611 Posted January 24, 2017 Share Posted January 24, 2017 I was persuaded to go to Dracula the ballet with Mrs2611, I have to admit I fell asleep during the first act, got elbowed in the ribs, woke up and actually quite enjoyed the remainder of the performance....it's funny how she only remembers me falling asleep...none of the nice meal we had before hand or how enthusiastic I was about the rest of the performance Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mikel Posted January 24, 2017 Share Posted January 24, 2017 When I met my missus she was ............a Morris dancer. I got dragged around a few dance gigs but as they were outside pub's it wasnt too much of a problem. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Raymondo Posted January 24, 2017 Share Posted January 24, 2017 Back in the seventies I took my (first) wife..... She was probably just my girlfriend at the time ....I don't know it was ages ago to see Sacha Distel....apparently he was "good looking" I didn't know that he was a great guitarist and I actually had a good night! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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