Jackroadkill Posted June 22, 2023 Share Posted June 22, 2023 I categorically, unequivocally and completely gave up playing about twelve years ago, following the folding of my band and a few aborted attempts to start new ones. Somehow last year I accidentally bought a bass and formed a covers band. Now our singer has booked us a gig for Saturday night. It's nothing overly dramatic, just at a party held by some friends of his. We'll be the first band on and have a 45 minute set. After not feeling nervous about this at all, it's getting very close and I'm starting to twitch a bit. Back in my younger days I thrived on the butterflies and played with wild abandon, causing chaos and heartbreak (okay, maybe just chaos) at every gig. These days I'm thinking that being on the ball, taking a back seat and just trying to get through without weeing myself might be the best bet. Have you lovely people any pearls of wisdom to share or is it more of a case of jump back in and see if I can still swim? Cheers, JRK 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lozz196 Posted June 22, 2023 Share Posted June 22, 2023 Check, check and check again your equipment before leaving. If it`s a 30min drive set off at least an hour before you need to get there. As long as you`re relaxed about your gear working and being on time anything else that may come your way can be dealt with at the time. 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Supernaut Posted June 22, 2023 Share Posted June 22, 2023 If you make a mistake, look at the guitarist, drummer or vocalist. It was definitely their fault. 4 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jackroadkill Posted June 22, 2023 Author Share Posted June 22, 2023 5 minutes ago, Lozz196 said: Check, check and check again your equipment before leaving. I've set aside some time during the day on Saturday to go through all of my gear (thankfully I'm not using much) and ensure that it's all shipshape. Luckily I spent years working as a roadie so I'm confident in this respect. 4 minutes ago, Supernaut said: If you make a mistake, look at the guitarist, drummer or vocalist. It was definitely their fault. Thanks - I'd forgotten that one! Thanks very much, chaps, much appreciated. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Happy Jack Posted June 22, 2023 Share Posted June 22, 2023 Remember that it's not just the audience auditioning you ... you're auditioning the audience. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sandypjb Posted June 22, 2023 Share Posted June 22, 2023 I've been gigging regularly since 1986 and still get butterflies in the hours beforehand. Just make sure you know the material (or at least the key), take a few deep breaths and try to enjoy it! 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gjones Posted June 22, 2023 Share Posted June 22, 2023 Nerves are good, it means you care. But remember the old saying 'fail to prepare.....prepare to fail'. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Leonard Smalls Posted June 22, 2023 Share Posted June 22, 2023 Always wear something cool and memorable. You're The Band, not a bunch of scruffy punters! Though if you're rubbish standing out makes it easier for disgruntled audience members to find you... 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
police squad Posted June 22, 2023 Share Posted June 22, 2023 also, remember to enjoy yourself. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chris_b Posted June 22, 2023 Share Posted June 22, 2023 Do your homework, have fun and start filling that diary up with more gigs. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Richard R Posted June 22, 2023 Share Posted June 22, 2023 1 hour ago, Jackroadkill said: Somehow last year I accidentally bought a bass and formed a covers band The best sentence I have read anywhere this week. Hope it's a blast - what sort of things are you playing? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tauzero Posted June 22, 2023 Share Posted June 22, 2023 Remember to look at the audience. Had I followed my own advice, I wouldn't have missed seeing the young lady in the red dress jiggle so enthusiastically at our first gig that she jiggled herself out of the top of it. Take a couple of spare leads (the guitarist is bound to need one) and spare batteries for everything that needs them. Get packed up in good time. 1 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
itu Posted June 22, 2023 Share Posted June 22, 2023 22 minutes ago, tauzero said: Take a couple of spare leads (the guitarist is bound to need one) and spare batteries... So true! Every time! Write a set list and the first chord, and you'll nail every song start. Others will be amazed. As said so many times before, if you can even stop where others stop, you've made it! 2 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Richard R Posted June 22, 2023 Share Posted June 22, 2023 4 hours ago, tauzero said: Remember to look at the audience. Had I followed my own advice, I wouldn't have missed seeing the young lady in the red dress jiggle so enthusiastically at our first gig that she jiggled herself out of the top of it. All credit for the righteous groove you laid down which got her so enthusiastic! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Waddo Soqable Posted June 22, 2023 Share Posted June 22, 2023 Assuming you've got your set rehearsed OK, just walk on and do it ! I had a big ( many years) break from doing gigs, the first one was just like going straight back in again.. You'll be fine, enjoy it 👍 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boodang Posted June 22, 2023 Share Posted June 22, 2023 I was doing a gig recently at a club we quite often play at. The manager was walking past the side of the stage and stopped to have a conversation with me half way through a song. I continued playing fine and talked to him at the same time without missing a note. It made me realise this is how not to be nervous at a gig, rehearse, rehearse, rehearse until you can do it in your sleep, or at least play while having a conversation. That way you're not thinking, oh g*d the next bit of the song is coming up and what do I do / this is always the bit where 'x' screws up! If the whole band have total confidence it what you're playing you can concentrate on having a fab time. Of course if you're under rehearsed then it's time to poo your pants! 2 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Riverbassman65 Posted June 22, 2023 Share Posted June 22, 2023 Have a blast! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
warwickhunt Posted June 22, 2023 Share Posted June 22, 2023 8 hours ago, tauzero said: ...the young lady in the red dress jiggle so enthusiastically at our first gig that she jiggled herself out of the top of it. Take a couple of spare leads (the guitarist is bound to need one) and spare batteries for everything that needs them. Are these 2 statements directly connected... what are the leads used for? I NEVER get those kind of gigs/offers! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jackroadkill Posted June 22, 2023 Author Share Posted June 22, 2023 Thanks so much, chaps. I really appreciate you all taking the time to lend me your wisdom (or mention boobies). This gig is a bit of a rush job but there's no pressure other than that which we put ourselves under. 9 hours ago, Richard R said: Hope it's a blast - what sort of things are you playing? Mainly '90's rock stuff, but the odd earlier / later song thrown in for good measure. We're trying to avoid too many standards if we can. 9 hours ago, itu said: Write a set list and the first chord, The set list is done, but writing the first chord is a superb idea - consider that one nicked! 5 hours ago, Waddo Soqable said: I had a big ( many years) break from doing gigs, the first one was just like going straight back in again I'm hoping that my experience will be the same, and I'm hoping very much that I enjoy it as much as I used to. 1 hour ago, Boodang said: Of course if you're under rehearsed then it's time to poo your pants! Bugger! Thanks all, JRK 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tauzero Posted June 22, 2023 Share Posted June 22, 2023 2 hours ago, warwickhunt said: Are these 2 statements directly connected... what are the leads used for? I NEVER get those kind of gigs/offers! You forgot to ask about the batteries, and which equipment would need them. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
warwickhunt Posted June 23, 2023 Share Posted June 23, 2023 8 hours ago, tauzero said: You forgot to ask about the batteries, and which equipment would need them. I chose not to ask... because I never get those kind of offers. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ricksterphil Posted June 23, 2023 Share Posted June 23, 2023 Prepare, make sure everything works before setting off to the gig and then enjoy! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
neepheid Posted June 23, 2023 Share Posted June 23, 2023 It'll all come flooding back! This is a relatively easy gig/starter for ten - a birthday party of friends of someone in the band are unlikely to be your most critical audience. Go out there and enjoy it, you'll do great! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nilorius Posted June 23, 2023 Share Posted June 23, 2023 (edited) 23 hours ago, Jackroadkill said: I categorically, unequivocally and completely gave up playing about twelve years ago, following the folding of my band and a few aborted attempts to start new ones. Somehow last year I accidentally bought a bass and formed a covers band. Now our singer has booked us a gig for Saturday night. It's nothing overly dramatic, just at a party held by some friends of his. We'll be the first band on and have a 45 minute set. After not feeling nervous about this at all, it's getting very close and I'm starting to twitch a bit. Back in my younger days I thrived on the butterflies and played with wild abandon, causing chaos and heartbreak (okay, maybe just chaos) at every gig. These days I'm thinking that being on the ball, taking a back seat and just trying to get through without weeing myself might be the best bet. Have you lovely people any pearls of wisdom to share or is it more of a case of jump back in and see if I can still swim? Cheers, JRK A bit of whiskey 12 hours before, will do the thing. Edited June 23, 2023 by nilorius 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Burns-bass Posted June 23, 2023 Share Posted June 23, 2023 I don’t really get nervous (unless I’m playing a double bass gig), but I echo the others here. I once had a technical issue at the biggest gig I ever played and ever since then I’ve taken 2 (or more) of everything to a gig. Basses, leads, amps, I even take 2 cabs! My set list has all the keys written on it, and details of stops, unison parts, solos etc. After that, it’s just about doing your best and remembering that you’re the coolest person there. 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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