A bit OT, but I couldn't not comment...[quote name='bassbluestew' post='1084781' date='Jan 10 2011, 08:21 PM']Reh before the wedding was cancelled, showed up at the gig with the bass part nailed feeling very pleased with myself. As soon as we started playing it was obvious our normally reliable drummer had just not bothered - boy was I pissed. Having said that, the couple were delighted.
Interestingly we are having huge debates whether we should reh so often or not. A vocal dep we used at the weeked said at the break, I love playing with you guys, you are so well rehearsed and make my job really easy.
S[/quote]To be frank, if your band are playing weddings then you are duty bound to be as polished and well-rehearsed as you possibly can be. Max kudos to you for taking the time to practice the tune thoroughly, but your drummer needs a kick up the arse for not bothering to learn that couple's first dance song & I don't blame you in the slightest for being pissed off with him. I'd have been livid.
OK, so the couple were delighted this time. But what if they'd spotted his slackness and been annoyed by it? How would [i]he[/i] feel if the most important dance of his life was spoiled because someone made a pig's breakfast of playing it 'cos he hadn't learned it?