[quote name='KingBollock' timestamp='1439528093' post='2843559']
For me, my personal wants/needs are so specific that they are a real problem, or so vague that they're useless.
The most important part is the music, there is no way I'd be interested in playing music I wasn't totally into.
Running a very close second/joint first is the people. I don't want to play with knob'eads. There's no fun in constant arguments and butting of egos.
If I could find both of those I wouldn't care if we never made any money, in fact I'd be quite prepared to lose money to enjoy it. As for gigs and recording and stuff, I don't really care. It'd be nice to have the extra stuff but getting together with some mates, having a laugh, writing tunes and playing them loudly would be enough for me.
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Totally agree with you KB - I think a band should gig, so it is important that any band I'm in does at least aim to gig, but for me being in a band is about trying to create music you enjoy listening to and playing with nice people.
The questions the OP suggests are still valid, mind...but you'd need to think about whether you and your bandmates are artistically on the same wavelength.