[quote name='Musicman20' post='1042135' date='Nov 30 2010, 11:26 AM']In my time as a bassist, the times I was less bothered about gear and more bothered about normal life I was actually always in stronger bands.
I have 3 key bands I should never have left. Two are still going, so one was never meant to be anyway.
The 2 that are left are both originals bands, and one of them in particular was just stunning. I never knew it at the time as money was tight (post-student days so I was lacking funds) and I had other rubbish going on in my life, plus I was deciding about where to go next (which I finally did with my LPC...thankfully).
I feel like an idiot listening to them now. Im still in touch with them, and Ive emailed to see how they are. They are now a 2 piece with a live drummer they bring in for big gigs and the bass is all either programmed or on keys with the singer I think. They have suddenly got a huge following, especially overseas. Jealous? Hell yes. Feel like I should have realised back then the grass isnt always greener? Hell yes.
Dont get me wrong, I enjoy the band Im in now, but for sheer songwriting quality, I am still a little gutted I left.[/quote]
Don't torture yourself with it, enjoy the memories and press on. May not be as good now as you remember anyway. Sounds like you're getting priorities sorted with mortgage etc, believe me things like that will matter more in the long run! If you keep playing, you'll find something bandwise that gives the old goose bumps again. I love to reminisce about the past punk band that I was in, and it was immense but I couldn't live like that anymore