How to Quit Politely

[Bassman1974]

2 hours ago, StickyDBRmf said:

I have an idea, but what exactly is a bell end?

Another name for either a guitarist or a saxophone player 

[Beedster]

21 hours ago, binky_bass said:

Fight all of them in a massive brawl, use as many weapons as is possible, I'd suggest swinging a ship's anchor around your head for maximum damage. Once everyone is sufficiently subdued tell them all it's their fault and that you're now going to take all their belongings and burn them in a giant fire followed by creating a commune where you are the leader and their families now live under your leadership. 

 

Or... just tell them honestly how you feel! 

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[kiat]

This happened to me a few days ago

 

If band A is an "open marriage" where it's fine for members to be in other bands, then join the one(s) you want to. To leave, later on you can honestly say to band A you don't have the time/memory/musical interests/money/whatever any more due to your lifestyle changes.

 

For me I needed to focus on the bands that I'm playing with that I'm actively gigging with, even though band A was one of the first I joined. 

 

Good luck!

[Gust0o]

Just be nice and transparent, avoid the temptation to burn bridges - unless it's made of paraffin-soaked palettes and absolutely in need of a match. Some bands do be like that.

 

They sound like decent people, just not right for you. Good luck!