I absolutely get where you’re coming from in the context of the other songs you’ve cited.
I would have zero interest in learning this guitarists w**k-fest. I would definitely exercise my veto option.
My humble opinion is that ‘If You Tolerate This’ isn’t even in the same ballpark.
The guitarist(s), and I assume it’s them who really want to do it, need to get over themselves.
I dep for a few bands where I look at the sets and my heart sinks, but I’m a hired hand in those situations and have no choice.
Where you have a choice, I’d say use it.