[quote name='blue' timestamp='1460957101' post='3030047']You really have to put a lot of thought into what your looking for in a band.
Weren't there any "red flags " that indicated these guys we're not going to work out for you?
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What I look for in a band is other people who aren't bell-ends.
The whole ethos of this band was to gather together a group of people of a certain vintage (most of us were over 40, parents and with responsible jobs), write a bunch of songs and hopefully get some local gigs. We said we didn't want to do covers, or blues, just play some rocking songs. No ego's, no "chasing the big time" or record deals. Just creating interesting music, having some fun, and being "yourself" for a few hours, instead of husband/dad/employee/responsible bloke etc.
Don't know about you guys, but I've been in quite a few bands over the years, a number of which didn't go anywhere because there were bell-ends involved who just wasted time. Time is a precious commodity when you're older, more people want more of your time, so time where you can do something you want to do is quite precious. Not wasting an evening surrounded by bell-ends who want to dick about playing Pink Floyd badly.
So yes, I have put some thought into what I'm looking for in a band. And your term "business" is very appropriate, I liken a band to a football team, you all have the same aim, and you need to work as a team not as a bunch of individuals.