If you can't get on with another band member,quit! Music is supposed to be enjoyable,not another' job'.
My last experience of not getting on with another band member(guitarist,surprise..):
4 strangers (me & three others) all join band together through a couple of ads.
We never knew each other. Eventually,the scenario was : singer, rarely rehearsed. Me &Drums get on fine.
Guitarist,critical of most of my playing(it made me improve alot tho')
Guitarist very quiet most of the time(not a man of words).
The thing I did,(because we all joined without knowing each other) was see who was gonna quit first .
It was almost me,but I persevered. Eventually ,guitarist quit. Singer hates guitarist,drummer thinks guitarist is hard work.
End result :I get new singer,as he 'wasn't available for a month' and me and drummer get new guitarist.
Irionically,I have a 'friend' request on facebook from guitarist ,but have iognored as he is hard work.
Whatever band I'm in now, if I don't get on with all members,I walk. Life's too short.