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Thanks for all the replies guys, I guess I'm about to embark on a search for a band. I'll have to learn how to go about that now too
Unfortunately jam/open mic nights are out for me, they all seem to be midweek and as I said before, my job keeps me away.
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I may have got hold of the wrong end of the stick, but I got the impression that you're a long-distance driver?
In that case, your job may keep you away from any regular jams near home, but it takes you close to loads of regular jams in other places.
The internet is your friend.
At many/most jams, you don't even necessarily have to bring a bass. It's pretty much the tradition that the house band will lend an instrument to anyone who needs it.
Incidentally, I started playing nine years ago, which is recent enough that I can remember the timescales.[list]
[*]3 months in, starting to jam with CDs designed for the novice bass player to play along with
[*]6 months in, starting to jam with individual guitarists, most at the same stage of development as me
[*]8 months in, attending a local jam session and just starting to get up
[*]11 months in, joined my first band
[*]16 months in, played my first gig in front of a genuine audience
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