[quote name='ironside1966' post='234182' date='Jul 7 2008, 02:38 PM']At least the venue has had the courtesy to inform you in advance.
If you can’t play quiet , turn the gig down and politely suggest the find something more suitable.[/quote]
plus the one
if you can't do as they want, then tbh i think you should turn down the gig, whether or not you think it's reasonable.