[quote name='gary mac' timestamp='1352627470' post='1865208']
Like JTUK I wouldn't normally be one to advocate resigning by email, however, earlier this year I did just that.
My reason at the time was that, we had already had many band discussions covering all the usual issues: volume, song choice, timing etc. It became increasingly obvious that speaking was a waste of time, as nothing seemed to get resolved.
The final straw for me was after selecting and agreeing on three songs each to add to the set list. At the next rehearsal the singer had learnt his three. The guitarist had learnt none. I had learnt all of them.
As talking seemed to be a waste of time, the following day I resigned by email.
In conclusion: If you suspect you are wasting your time, resign by whatever method will get through to them
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i left one of my bands this week by email. in retrospect it feels a little odd (much like 'dumping by text'), but i wasn't prepared to go through another half-hearted practice just to tell them i was leaving.
anyway, two of the other members are in their early 20s and seem to do everything online, so i didn't think they'd take it too bad !
as to the OP - if you've crossed the line into not enjoying it then it's prolly time to call it a day. determination will carry you so far, but if everyone else isn't bothered you really are flogging a dead one.