[quote name='BottomE' timestamp='1330447298' post='1557645']
Sometimes living in a small/rural town can restrict your opportunities.
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Examples include: finding a wife outside of the family; avoiding certain genetic characteristics; etc
You have come, as you say, to a 'somewhat drastic decision' - I don't think you mean it, but just need a gee up. I don't think there's any miracle source for finding new opportunities - you try the band forums, the music forums; etc, and eventually something will come along and catch your eye.