This is a great thread, it has made me think about one of the bands I'm currently playing with quite hard.
I'm certainly no pro, but have played in bands, always originals, for years and know my place and function pretty well.
The guitarist/Singer's voice is too quiet for live, the guitaring tends to the pentatonic, the songs have no noticable arrangements, and the drummer, while technically good, doesn't listen that well and plays too loudly. I'm not mad about half the material either!
It sounds like a bit of a nightmare, but I'm doing it to keep my hand in, as my other band does almost nothing at the moment.
I can totally get the "feeling a bit sh*t by association" thing Bilbo.
Thoughts, anyone?
By the way, I was once in a jazz band (our set list was almost everything on Bilbo's "pet hates" list in another thread). I can't play jazz, I found it just too hard technically, and we were mostly terrible in jazz terms.
The disappointing thing is, we played at Brent town hall providing background music for a large dinner, and of about 600 people there, not one came up to us and said how sh*t we were!