I play at home only. Used to be in a band and it was fun, but the crap parts for me didn't outweigh the good parts - the drunks falling all over the stage, getting home late at night and unloading gear by myself (woman, living in a rough area, bit scary), playing the same songs every week (band members never wanted to break out of the 70's pub rock stuff that every band plays).
Then when the time came that I wasn't really physically capable of it any more, I found that I didn't really miss it that much.
Sounds a bit negative haha, but it's a different view at least.