[quote name='mtgreen' timestamp='1339936124' post='1696425']
I'd be really interest to hear any (sympathetic) views on the matter.[/quote]
Hi mtgreen,
Sorry for your situation. It sounds devastating indeed.
In my experience and humble opinion, almost no families are compatible with a life on the road. Taking your post at face value, he's investing his life in a risky business right now, where even a golden outlook guarantees nothing. As long as this seems to contradict what he said about a family, he probably is doing one of the things wrong. Again, at face value.
I can also imagine that he is more rational than you say he is, but that his conflicting feelings and his guilt make him [b]seem[/b] less rational. Especially if he feels he can be a provider, and should be, his brain may work at lightning speed now.
I have no idea how many months artists can be away in real life. Ten months seems like murder to me, but six months seems quite possible - depending of course on circumstances.
All the very best to you!