[quote name='bazztard' timestamp='1509247345' post='3397535']
if you are young, go for it, it'll be an experience
if you are older, around 56 like me, well, life is too short from here on in to waste even a SECOND playing stuff you don't want to play
a band is a democracy, if the other members want to play this stuff, you have to let them know that you don't . If they don't offer a compromise then it's time to move on
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Except, I'd say that life is too short to be sitting around trying to find the next band when you just threw your toys out of the pram and quit. Our playing years are limited so make the best use and get gigging. Also Many bands are not democracy's. Almost none of the successful ones are so refusing to compromise (and walking away as a result) is a fault in my book not a strength.