Welcome Devon.
I think you answered your own question in your second last paragraph. You aren't the only one. Although you ask for guidance, no-one can decide for you. As you know, until you are playing with others, you are at a loose end.
The best I can offer is for you to have a go at as many genres as you can comfortably stomach. Playing is a different experience from listening and you may get value from genres that you might otherwise overlook.