IMO, time for a quick summary of your position so far:
[quote]* Drummer who can't make soundcheck, rehearsals or gigs. He has a very good kit which he says, only comes out for special gigs.
* Singer or percussionist who can't make soundcheck or rehearsals because of other comitments.
* The last gig we did, in Guildford, our singer/guitarist never bothered to bring his Guitar amp
* We have a Xylophone/percussion player who needs to put their kit on a stand obviously ... they were looking around the venues kitchen for a tall bin...
* Emails is the main form of communication yet people don't reply back to emails.
* I seem to be doing all the running and the rest of the band seem to be sitting back and enjoying themselves.[/quote]
It would seem they are a total bunch of piss-taking timewasters. Score yourself a new band, pronto.
As for the drum hire, tell the drummer he can sort himself out for a kit, the lazy f***-tard