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I think you'll find it's actually hugely offensive.
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In my defense, I don't believe I've ever used the term myself,as someone who plays both guitar and bass I'm just not offended by it.
But, having read some of the comments here, particularly by those who have personal reasons to dislike the term, I'm willing to reconsider my position.
In the past I have worked (as part of a disability rights team who's job was to explain to people the new civil rights they received under the 1995 Disability Discrimination Act) with people with mental disabilities and I would never use the r word to describe any of them. Mainly because it's a piss poor catch all term which ignores the unique difficulties each individual faces.