I've always been one who's happy to lend gear. I know there are strong opinions either way, and I wouldn't advise anyone else what to do. Last night, we supported a Blur tribute band at the Robin 2 near Wolverhampton. I'd had a message late in the afternoon from our guitarist, asking if it was OK if the bassist borrowed my cab. I said yes, got there, passed the cab (Barefaced BB2) over to the bassist, and also lent him a speakon-jack speaker cable.
I wanted to leave before the end, and our guitarist said he was happy to take my cab back to his place just down the road from me. So he did, and then I got a message from him to say the bassist had forgotten to give him the speaker lead but had put it behind the bar. After work today, I took a 15 mile or so detour to pick the lead up, got home, then went to pick up the cab. The guitarist brings out the cab, but the immaculate Roqsolid cover is missing. To say I am p!ssed off is an understatement. The guitarist has messaged them to ask about the cover. I am not a happy bunny. Stuff lending gear to anyone else.