thankyou all for the comments,
so let me explain further,
no he is not the band leader or even the longest member,
but he does like to analize the smallest detail,
we are a pub covers band,
a few weeks ago he put forward a song to add to the set list,afier a discussion with the band
we all said it would not go with what we do although we all liked the song it is just not us,
he spat the dummy out
so this week we started rehearsing a suggestion from the drummer,it was all going ok until he started explaining the
chord sequence in the middle eight which we had all played through a couple of times and all was well,
until he said I think you should continue that line for the solo,
when I said hold on the keyboard player was trying to explain something to us all,he flipped big time
to which I said there is no solo in this song and I thought we all agreed to play this as is because its so popular,
yeh yeh but there is space for a solo,
oh and I don't think we need that chorus on,
but he did not realize the threshold was turned off it was only showing the red light but the effect was off,
I knew he would say some thing if he thought it was on,the placebo effect and it worked,
so when we finished the rehearsal I was feeling angry,fustrated and getting ready for a argument
but I left and stewed for a couple of days,
I have had no contact with anyone,so will go to the rehearsal on wed and see what decision I will make.
dependant on the result of a chat,