Just when i thought the band saga had came to an end, the drummer throws a spanner in the works!
He's a total gym buff (so goes several times a week) and is now doing pole dancing (srsly!) and is starting yoga and a martial art.
Myself and the guitarist were worried he would be commited and make booking practices near impossible. I spoke to drummer tonight and he's assured me he'd make them. IF they were about 9/10 at night or after 5 on weekends.
I should add that he does NOT practice on his own.. Myself and the guitarist attempt to practice for a few hours each night with the songs to learn them and learn what we're doing. Drummer does not. Soooooo i say to guitarist that drummer should be willing to practice more and improve.. I got this reply.
"I know this whole drummer thing is kinda harsh but I'm feeling now I have to be happy and enjoy music to play in a band. I guess I got worn down by the constant fails onstage and we had before. I had too much on my plate and I'm more than happy to admit it, hence me stopping singing/simplifying what I do to the point it's at now and sorting myself out/rediscovering my inspiration and love of my guitar. I just don't know if I can handle another gig with the end of a song failing and overshooting/dropped sticks/missing a beat/going out of time/losing concentration and no effort being made to sort it out in practice, if at all. I mean I'll give him benefit of the doubt cos he's obvs one of my best mates, as you obviously are too, but I'm not really up for embarrassment onstage anymore. I mean...we'll have some badass tunes, and they deserve to be played to their utmost and appreciated. I'm happy he's stoked...but that's never really made much of a difference before, what's going to different now?"
I kinda agree... But this a drummer whos one of my closest mates and i've known for years. The stuff we do is to a click and needs the drums in time.
Anyone got any ideas what i should do? Feel like a middle man and its pretty stressful!
Rant over!