That's my excuse too!! I ended up finding my 'holy grail' bass as a custom-build. Mind you, disappointingly my only other (more expensive!!) custom-build turned out NOT to be a keeper. So all I need to worry about now is that elusive ideal back-up bass. Again, as others have said, I've ruled out the 'cheapie' solution following repeated trial and error. Actually, I'm hoping to find it in the shape of the 'holy grail mkll' I've just commissioned.
As Stewie says, a 'journey of discovery' is exactly what it is! Thankfully I'm busy - which I agree helps turn down the GAS a bit!