[quote name='paulbass' timestamp='1440164882' post='2848776']
Why do bass players always get put in this situation!
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Nobody bothers the drummer with this kind of thing, because obviously they have their own cross to bear. And the guitarist and vocalist are usually that brilliant that they can't even be informed about such tedious worldly practicalities in the first place in case it upsets them, what with them being so artistically creative and sensitive and all.
So it's usually left to the bass player (being a down-to-earth, grounded type), who naturally will have a car and a lightweight rig, so plenty of room for everything else, surely? And if you could just drive forty miles out of your way to give my mate a lift to and from the gig because he wants to get pissed and shout insults at us from the back of the room. OK, then? Good.
I put my foot down years ago. In my book it's each band member's responsibility to know where the gig is and to make their own way to and from it with whatever gear they need to do the job, AND be on bloody time. In return, I'll do the same. That's the end of it. The type of gigs we do usually involve a house PA, so it really shouldn't be much of a problem, should it?
Last-minute phone calls or excuses (I can't find the venue! My guitar won't work! My car's broken down! I left my microphone on the bus!) will be given very short shrift, involving a tirade of abuse featuring the 'F' word in conjunction with the 'C' word and featuring the 'W' word.