I've had 18 months in a band with someone I've tried to like, and failed completely.
Take one self centred narcissistic guitar player who is tired of practicing alone and wants to be a 'rock god' to impress his mates 'down the pub'.
He recruits a band, pretends he wants to perform and move forward but really just wants to have a free backing band. He only wants to play his style of music that is narrow and quite bigoted, he won't learn the words or the chords, he won't listen to advice at all and continues in behaving in a way that winds everyone up. 18 months later we've done 3 gigs and he's all hot air and lies.
I confront him and it's me that's the problem, that and the obvious personality clash I have with him. Yes I think I do really dislike him