Your enquiry is slightly unusual. You refer to not being able to "memorise songs". I would suggest that, until you can do that, there is little point in attempting to learn to play any instrument. Can you sing, even to a limited extent? Do you sing along with the radio, etc? You need top develop your ear and appreciation of music (not intellectual understanding or theory - it's pointless attempting to learn music theoretically without practical application, which it appears you may be trying to do).This is vital and is especially important for playing the bass - because the bass is responsible for laying down the harmonic and rhythmic foundation of any piece, the player must have an appreciation of those things. Until you have developed your ear, you cannot really learn any instrument. I'd suggest taking some basic singing lessons to start you off.