[quote name='silddx' post='450952' date='Mar 31 2009, 10:50 PM']I'm not surprised, I've had to deal with idiots, time wasters, weirdos and talented prima donnas before now, and spent a lot of time and money. It's valuable experience though so not time wasted. I was lucky, I had a relationship with a girl that was connected to the people I play with now, so I was already friendly with them. The trick is to be trusted to be cool and do a professional job of being a bassist. Having personal connections obviously cuts through all the bollocks and arrogance of auditions and it's SO convenient for the band. It really is who you know, not what you know most of the time.
I have a fulfilling day job and an extraordinarily fulfilling musical life. The balance is right, I wouldn't want to be a full time pro, semi pro is perfect for me. Luckily my day job is fairly flexible.
Sorry, doesn't help much, I know.[/quote]
Some people want to be more than happy though.