[quote name='blue' timestamp='1414111077' post='2586088']
Ok, how many of you can say to a member,[list]
[*][i]Why did you sell all your good gear [/i]
[*][i]Why are you still struggling with that vocal part, [/i]
[*][i]Why are you drinking so much at gigs, [/i]
[*][i]You don't seem involved or as interested as you use to.[/i]
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I contend these sensitive issues are easier if a member is a true friend. Agree?
Blue
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I absolutely & totally disagree with this. I think it's much easier to say these sort of things to people who aren't friends, which is why I would far rather be in a band where the relationships are more business-like & with people I never see apart from when rehearsing or gigging.
Unfortunately, in my experience anyway, even if bands start out like this the people in them always seem to end up wanting to be your friend & start going out for a drink & stuff, which is the point I usually leave the band.