Hiya Carl
Everyone does things their own way:
I've been playing for 25 years this year: first few years playing along to CDs & cassettes (pre-internet), then playing in a gigging band for 10 years - learning scales, chords, modes & about playinh live & locking in with a drummer.
For the past few years I've played for myself at home with a quick {unsuccessful) foray with a new band.
Wherever you're up to, as long as you find it rewarding, its the right way of doing it.
Good luck!