It’s a memorial service I think, so she probably wants to do the best she can at this point.
no one will notice small mistakes, honestly.
I totally train wrecked with a super loud guitarist, and a drummer that I was too close to hear. I lost my confidence totally. The thing that got me back on the horse was realising that most audiences don’t care about small mistakes and that their standards were so low that “fairly close” was definitely good enough
If you’re really stuck, stop playing, hum
along in your head and start playing again when you find your place again, like at a chorus :thumbsup
i suggest you get someone to record you and you’ll probably find you did better than you thought
👍