I have a John East in my Stingray 5, and I boost the bass a little, boost the treble when it's needed, and I'm still getting to grips with the sweepable mid, so usually just boost a little hi-mid when I need to cut through. I mostly use the bridge pup, but add in the neck one for a fatter sound. For softer songs I use both pups as single coils. I use the eq on the bass a lot, generally my EBS HD350 is pretty flat, but I us all the controls on the bass to enhance certain characteristics of the bass.
I get the "wrong gear" guys idea, and clearly a shorts scale gibson wouldn't be any good to me, but I like a versatile bass, that can cut it for any gig. What kind of band do the "wrong gear" people play in?