[quote name='casapete' post='465303' date='Apr 17 2009, 05:55 PM']+1 to the above.
I live in a Victorian terraced house, and the lad next door used to rehearse with a full acoustic drum kit every night just when my
girlfriend just got in from work/early evening. I think his parents thought I would be tolerant knowing I was a pro musician,
but as I tried to explain to them it was like coming in from a noisy factory and still hearing it in your home! We could hear every part
of his playing, was just like being in the room with him, no kidding!
Despite many friendly attempts in person to compromise with them over this, I eventually rang my local council who were very helpful - gave me
a basis on which to attempt to get it stopped. After writing a polite letter to the neighbours stating the next step was to involve the council, the drumming
ceased. Unfortunately the whole family have since blanked us, which is really sad but thats the outcome. Think the parents bought the lad an electric kit with headphones - pity they had n't shown this consideration sooner really.
I try to adopt a 'live and let live' policy regarding noise. Occasional birthday party celebrations/house warmings etc are all part of our lives.
Do think though that regularly making neighbours lives a misery however you do it is pretty selfish behaviour, and does cause a lot of trouble.
Like the previous post, I also believe we should all be entitled to a peaceful home environment.
( God-hope this does n't sound like the Daily Mail/Express readers posting on here!!!!)[/quote]
But the difference is you went round and had a polite word.
The OP lives in a detached house, and I've credited him with a degree of common sense regarding the distance his house is from others and the level that they are playing at.
A local shop were using an alley leading to my flat to dump their rubbish, so the first thjing I did was have a quick word. To me, its the first step and its easier than phoning the council. As it happens, the polite word didn't work, so I just started posting their litter through their letterbox each night.