Reading this got me thinking:
http://basschat.co.uk/topic/202671-why-do-we-gig/
Started playing bass at 14 (I'm 35 now), played in (original) bands from age 16-22.
Some good bands in the early and middle days, in my later gigging days too many abandoned projects, timewasters etc.
As I'm sure a lot on here will have experienced - Some of the best times of my life have been related to being in and around playing in bands and some of the worst times of my life have been related to being playing in bands.
I barely touched a bass from ages 23-33 but in the last couple of years have started to practice as much as is practical with a full time job and a young family.
Sometimes I think I really want to get back into a band, sometimes I don't know if I do!!
I do like practicing, learning and challenging myself at home.
I've had a look at a few bands and they've had a look at me but nothing has sparked my interest.
To spark my interest the band would ideally need to be playing originals, all musicians be of a good standard and trying to do something a little different than the usual middle of the road material.
I suppose I'd rather be in no band than in a not very good band playing to small, unappreciative audiences, landlords/promoters trying to play games. I wouldn't say I wanted to get back into it for the money but being a little older and wiser I would not accept being taken advantage of and being consistently out of pocket for late nights lumping gear about to backstreet empty pubs.
So maybe I'm just not good enough to be in the standard of band that (I think) I want to be in?
Any input welcome....
Anybody else in the same situation?.