[quote name='Sean' post='60955' date='Sep 15 2007, 08:05 PM']My band's going through a big hoo hah at the moment over the way one of the backing vocalists who's been with us 4 weeks spoke to me at rehearsal. In a nutshell, she was extremely condescending to me and said that I couldn't be expected to learn the part in question as quickly as the keyboard player because I'm "just a bassist", she then told everyone they had to be patient with the non-musicians in the band.
The week before the other backing vocalist commented on how novel it was that I read music, to which the first one said that bass music is much easier to read than "proper" music. I kept my mouth shut at the time but it has since become an issue and it looks like she'll be out the door very soon.
If she'd have been a bloke I'd have punched his lights out - it's a shame I'm not an equal rights bassist really![/quote]
Punch her anyway. Emotionally.