Perfectly understandable. We're all different. I understand how gigging a lot can work for some and not others.
I answer to no one and can sleep as late as I want. I'm single by design, as a matter of fact, I broke up with the last woman I dated because I knew she didn't get rock & roll or gigging.
Our guitarists wife comes to every single gig with him, she's never missed a show in the 7 years I've been with the band. I asked her why;
"Because I love watching my husband do something he loves"
That's the kind of lady I need to meet. No woman is ever going to give me any type of grief about gigging.
The money I earn from gigging means so much more to me than the salary I drew when I was a part of the traditional workforce. And I had a great paying career. I still feel that getting paid to have fun and do something you love is, well you can't beat it.
Sure there's little inconveniences and every gig won't be great, but I still wouldn't trade away gigging for anything.
I'm not important enough to hate any genre of music as long as it's professional and played well and I get paid to do it.
I truly love this business and I love playing.
BTW, sorry about the rant.
Blue