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  1. 9 minutes ago, Boodang said:

    The fact that 3 string basses have been totally ignored in all of this is a tragedy. All 3 string bassists should be mortally offended.

     

    Agreed  ! And what about the bassists who play three string basses with two strings ? This incessant marginalisation of the intersectionality of fretboard/string count determinism cannot go on !

     

    Shadowy Cabals ! Vested Interests !

     

    ;)

     

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  2. Tell the bandleader(s) you're not happy with the last minute cancellations, and if it happens again within (insert patience-length appropriate time period here), you'll be off, then stick to your word.

     

    I wouldn't leave without telling them why - bands fall apart and reform, and by letting them know its the logistics that's putting you off, an incarnation with better organisation might be calling you up. 

     

    Good luck 

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  3. 2 hours ago, Al Krow said:

     

    Is your current band covers or originals and, before your drummer left, were you regularly gigging and, if so, were they decently paid gigs? 

     

    Just trying to figure out what might be behind the drummer drought you're facing - as you say in London it shouldn't be too hard to find someone, but an originals outfit still in its start-up phase is usually going to be a harder sell than a regularly gigging covers band doing decently paid gigs.

     

    Yes, we're just starting out, and it's originals and we need a good drummer as the material's quite challenging, so I appreciate it's not like an established cover band.

     

    I think it's just my enthusiasm has completely dried up after 35 years of being in bands with slowly diminishing returns.

     

    I've not picked up a bass in about three weeks - I wonder whether it's worthwhile just quitting playing for (insert period of time here) not thinking about it and seeing if I come back with more interest.

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  4. 20 minutes ago, Waddo Soqable said:

    One band I was in had a drummer that was a proper pain and often "couldn't make it", our solution was my girlfriend of the time became a drum machine operator, so when old silly bollocks wasn't available we did it the other way, which worked fine, in fact it worked better without him! 

    There's often a think outside the box option.

    Obviously if you're into a very traditional "rock band" type line up then having a drummer is a big thing, but there's a lot of folk out there in the world doing great stuff without one. 

     

     

    We've talked about this as a band and it's not something we like the idea of, aware of the fact that we _could_  but....well, don't want to.

     

    But, you indeed have a valid point 👍

     

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  5. I've decided to give up on trying to join a band, as over the last maybe 5-10 years I've found it nigh on impossible to get together with people who I want to make music with.

     

    My current 'band' has been without a drummer for 6 months, we've not got together for a couple of months, so I feel it's just come to a halt.

     

    It all feels a lot of effort for no payoff, over and over again :(

     

    Rather depressingly, I feel this is almost certainly going to lead me to quitting playing altogether as I've no desire to play bass without doing it with a band.

     

    I've no idea why it's turned out this way, or why it's so damn hard to find a band. In London FFS ! Shouldn't it be easier with this many people ? Oddly all my musical friends elsewhere in the country are all in bands.

     

    Maybe it's me ? I'll not rule out this possibility :)

     

    Anyhow, sorry, kinda jumped on the thread to moan a bit.

     

     

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