I always feel a bit morbid, thinking about getting older. I've never once spoken about "Well, at my age..." or "I'm getting old.."
But the simple fact is that we are normally surrounded by people of a similar age. We lose friends, family and heroes more frequently.
We moved to France around 12 years ago to escape the roundabout of this 'living to work' etc. The pace of life has kept my heart rate down and helped with the arthritis..!
I've been playing regular gigs all that time. The 'escape' of being with fellow musicians and making people happy enough to kick their shoes off and dance to something I was helping to create is the only drug I need.
A few months ago another big change to our lives. We bought a live-aboard motor home to tour Europe and we're about to buy a house in the country. First time we've owned our house since leaving the UK.
I'm 73 and friends have raised their eyebrows when we've told them what we're up to. Expected us to sit in front of the telly probably.
I could talk about losing friends as well. The very thought of losing my wife scares the freaking hell out of me. How others cope, I just don't know.
Life ain't a bloody rehearsal...