[quote][Rant] Mart! No! No! No!
Do not under any circumstances let some t**t of a singer, or for that matter, anyone [period] dictate to you about your sound. You have some of the lovliest basses both in looks and sound & your rig is top notch, too. As far as the singist goes (for singer, read failed musician) just ignore him!
I'll bet he comes from the school of thought that says, "bass should be felt and not heard." Cock!
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I can appreciate the humour of this but - at the same time, I think it might be worth valuing his or her opinion as I can appreciate that Stingray-esque sounding basses can across as overly aggressive, or just simply not right for the overall sound of the band. Who knows - as in this situation, it might prompt you to possibly realise that getting something such as a Jazz bass could suit the kind of music you play a lot more! Have you also thought about the possibly of something like a Lakland 44-01 or 55-01 (unashamedly based on a recent purchase of mine ) or maybe something like a Yamaha TRB? These kinds of basses seem to be very good at doing vintage-style two pickup/single pickup sounds, but at the same time don't sound *completely* vintage-esque and can sometimes offer (objectively) better playability. These could be a good start.
It may be your sound and your equipment, and this should be respected, but IMHO the band is as a whole a package to be respected, which may (or may not) involve making decisions such as this. I would be happy that another member of my band made a suggestion about my bass sound, full stop!