I'll try not to treat this as a counselling session - honest. I lived in London in the 80's and I bought an Aria Pro II RSB Deluxe bass (candy apple red with gold hardware) and little Ohm practice amp. I started out the wrong way - I wanted to slap 24/7 and be Mark King.
I only had a few bass lessons but I wasn't focussed enough to practice properly or even figure out what I wanted to do on bass. I rehearsed with a couple of soul bands and a rock band but gigged very little. A Trace Elliot head (yes, I really wanted to be Mark King) came and went as did the loaned speakers, the fretless twin to the fretted Aria and a Precision copy that a mate 'just gave me'.
I moved back to Manchester and rehearsed a lot with some very talented blues and rock players but, again, very little gigging. The Aria sat in its bag for ages. Just recently, I recalled a time in London when I often visited a mate who had a Fender Mustang bass which I could not put down whenever I was round there.
With that memory in mind, I just ordered a short-scale Ibanez bass which looks like I always wanted a bass to look and has the short scale that I hope will let me play all the stuff I used to play but, more importantly, let me learn some proper technique without hurting my old hands. I'm 62 - will I go out gigging? Probably not. Will I record something? Likely. Will I enjoy having a bass back in my hands? I am hopeful.
Nice to meet you.