[quote name='Doddy' post='632453' date='Oct 21 2009, 02:23 PM']I think all of this depends on the individual. There is a difference between the Professionals and the,for want of a
better word,'Hobbyists'.
If you work 9 to 5 everyday,and then rehearse a couple of times a week and gig at weekends,I can
understand why your partner would be unhappy.In that case,I think it's fair to offer some kind of compromise,
if the relationship means anything to you.
If,however,you are a professional then things are different. The request to cut down on playing is totally
unacceptable.
The thing is,being a pro musician is not just a job,it's a lifestyle. I always lay this down straight
away whenever I meet someone new. That way,you quickly find out if it is likely to cause any problems.[/quote]
this quote is veery true
not that i have any experience in marrage but by the looks of things im still sticking to not gettin married haha